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Meet someone worth your time.

A dating app for adults in the United States.

Like one thing. Say why. Start there.

Most apps ask you to judge a face in half a second. Intime asks what caught your eye: a photo, an answer, the way someone put something. You say why, and the conversation starts from there.

Be liked for something you said.

Three steps from a like to a first date.

Make a profile that sounds like you

Add your photos and answer a few questions.

Like one thing, and say why

Pick a photo or an answer and write a line about it. They see exactly what caught your eye.

Your line starts the chat

If they like you back, what you wrote becomes the first message. The conversation has started before either of you needed an opener.

Say what you noticed.

A young woman in a small kitchen holding out a homemade chocolate cake that leans
I trust a cake that leans. What flavor?
A young man in a record shop holding up a worn record sleeve and grinning
I need to know which record that is.
A young man crouching in a city park with his arm round a golden retriever
Who is this, and can he come on the first date?
A young woman on porch steps playing an acoustic guitar covered in stickers
What were you playing?

Pick the first date.

Every profile can say what a first date would be: a time and a plan, picked from a short list. Like it, and the plan is the first thing you talk about.

A young couple singing along in the crowd at a small indoor gig
Let’s get together Friday night for live music
A young couple laughing over tacos from a food truck on a city street
Let’s get together A weekday lunch for tacos and a walk
A young couple in a cramped used bookstore, one reading a line aloud to the other
Let’s get together Saturday afternoon for a bookstore wander