Intime is for people who would rather write one good message than send a hundred openers. It’s built for the United States, and only the United States.
In 2023 the US Surgeon General found that about half of adults in the United States report feeling lonely. Dating apps could help, but most ask you to decide about a whole person in a second, from one photo. The result is a lot of matches, and not many conversations worth having.
Intime works the other way round. You like one thing someone shared, a photo or an answer to a question, and you write a line about why. If they like you back, that line is your first message, so every chat starts with something to talk about.
Add your photos and answer a few questions. Like a particular photo or answer and add a comment. They see exactly what caught your eye.
Chats waiting on your reply stay at the top of your list until you answer. Chats that go quiet for two weeks fold away under Older, and one new message brings them back.